Stop talking so much: how to actually listen when people speak
We all like to think we’re good communicators. Most of us are not. The big secret? Communication isn’t just talking. It’s silence, pauses, noticing what the other person is actually saying. Strange that listening, the most passive-seeming part, feels like the hardest. You can be sharp, educated, even hilarious, and still fail in conversation if you only hear yourself.
I used to think I was a decent listener, nodding politely while already planning my reply in my head. Wrong. People can sense that. They notice when you’re waiting for your turn versus actually taking in their words. It’s like watching …
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